How to reprimand your cat
Cats have a reputation for being aloof, distant and
unflappable. So how do you reprimand your cat when she has done
something wrong?
In normal circumstances, you should rarely have to reprimand
your cat. The common cat issues of clawing, spraying, meowing
and going to the bathroom where they're not supposed to, can
and should be dealt with by immediate training. Sometimes
gentle discipline needs to be part of training.
If your cat has developed new and unwanted behaviour, try to
understand why. If, for example, your cat has started urinating
outside the litter box, the issue is as likely be medical as
behavioural. She may have a urinary blockage or urinary
infection.
Similarly, a cat that has suddenly started clawing at window
frames may be responding to some new stress in its life. She
may be marking territory to warn off an outdoor cat she has
seen outside the window or she might simply be stressed by an
overcrowded house. If you can eliminate or adjust the root
cause of the behaviour, you'll never need to discipline your
cat.
Spraying
One of the most effective ways to reprimand a cat is with a
spray bottle. Most cats hate getting wet and the sudden shock
of cold water combined with the sound of the spray gun will
startle them.
It is important to be consistent with a reprimand if you
wish to change behaviour. The important thing to remember is
that it's only useful or fair to reprimand your cat if you
catch her in the act of misbehaving or immediately afterwards.
If you find faeces your cat left on the floor an hour ago,
there's no point in punishing her for it. Even if you bring the
cat to the mess, she won't be able to make the association
between the reprimand and the behaviour you're punishing her
for.
Sound advice
Whatever method you choose to discipline your cat, always
accompany it with a firm 'no', a snap of your fingers, or a
hand clap.
Do this consistently and eventually your cat will learn to
associate the sound you make with the reprimand. Then all it
will take is a snap of your fingers or a firm 'no' to get the
cat to leave your curtains alone or to send her scurrying from
the kitchen table.
Never shout or scream at a cat and never hit or physically
reprimand your cat. It's sometimes said that 'you just need to
show them who is boss' or 'rub their noses in it'. This is not
true. Cats do not respond well to negative reinforcement and it
is a very ineffective way to reprimand your cat. In fact,
actions such as this are more likely to make your cat avoid you
entirely than correct her behaviour.